{"id":9399,"date":"2022-12-25T18:21:07","date_gmt":"2022-12-25T15:21:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/?p=9399"},"modified":"2022-12-25T18:47:20","modified_gmt":"2022-12-25T15:47:20","slug":"kavga-insanla-kader-arasinda-degil-artik-insanla-kelime-arasinda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/kavga-insanla-kader-arasinda-degil-artik-insanla-kelime-arasinda\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Kavga insanla kader aras\u0131nda de\u011fil art\u0131k, insanla kelime aras\u0131nda&#8230;&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kastamonu \u00dcniversitesi Bilgehan Bilgili Merkez K\u00fct\u00fcphanesi Cemil Meri\u00e7 Konferans Salonu&#8217;nda  Psikoloji Toplulu\u011fu taraf\u0131ndan d\u00fczenlenen konferansta \u0130leti\u015fim Fak\u00fcltesi \u00d6\u011fretim \u00dcyesi Do\u00e7. Dr. Z\u00fcbeyde S\u00fcll\u00fc, &#8220;Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim ve \u0130leti\u015fim&#8221; ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir konu\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi. Konferansa akademisyenler ve \u00f6\u011frenciler yo\u011fun ilgi g\u00f6sterdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3492-min-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9416\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3492-min-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3492-min-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3492-min-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3492-min-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3492-min-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u00e7. Dr. S\u00fcll\u00fc,  konu\u015fmas\u0131nda ileti\u015fimin tan\u0131m\u0131, ileti\u015fimin insan hayat\u0131ndaki etkisi konular\u0131n\u0131 verdi\u011fi \u00f6rnekler ile anlatt\u0131.  \u0130leti\u015fimin unsurlar\u0131n\u0131n 3\u2019e ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen Do\u00e7. Dr. S\u00fcll\u00fc, bunlar\u0131n ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ve kendimize sald\u0131rgan davranmak, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ve kendimize pasif davranmak ve son olarak ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ve kendimize etkili ve giri\u015fken davranmak oldu\u011funu dile getirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00fcll\u00fc, konferans\u0131n Cemil Meri\u00e7 Konferans Salonu&#8217;nda olmas\u0131ndan hareketle Cemil Meri\u00e7\u2019in \u201cKavga insanla  kader aras\u0131nda de\u011fil art\u0131k, insanla kelime aras\u0131nda&#8230;\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlatarak ileti\u015fimde kelimelerin g\u00fcc\u00fcne i\u015faret etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"678\" src=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0155-1024x678.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9402\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0155-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0155-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0155-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0155-1536x1017.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0155-2048x1356.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar ile etkile\u015fimli bir \u015fekilde s\u00fcrd\u00fcren Do\u00e7. Dr. S\u00fcll\u00fc, &#8220;Neden ileti\u015fim kuruyoruz?&#8221;,&nbsp;&#8220;G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ileti\u015fim kurmak insanlar i\u00e7in neden zor?&#8221;&nbsp;sorular\u0131n\u0131 dinleyenlere y\u00f6neltti. Gelen cevaplar \u00fczerine dilin ileti\u015fimde etkili bi\u00e7imde kullan\u0131labilmesi i\u00e7in gerekli unsurlara dikkati \u00e7eken Do\u00e7. Dr. S\u00fcll\u00fc, ileti\u015fimin temel kurallar\u0131ndan ve ileti\u015fimde yap\u0131lan hatalardan da s\u00f6z etti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u00e7. Dr. S\u00fcll\u00fc, \u201cHepimiz \u015fiddetli ileti\u015fim kuruyoruz.\u201d diyerek empati kurman\u0131n \u00f6neminden, \u015fiddetsiz ileti\u015fimin m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilece\u011finden ve ayna n\u00f6ronlar\u0131ndan bahsetti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"678\" src=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0188-1024x678.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9405\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0188-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0188-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0188-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0188-1536x1017.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0188-2048x1356.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Konferansta, Kastamonu \u00dcniversitesi \u0130leti\u015fim Fak\u00fcltesi Ara\u015ft\u0131rma G\u00f6revlisi Meryem Salar s\u00f6z alarak insanlar\u0131n dertlerini payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 ki\u015filer taraf\u0131ndan yarg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirterek ileti\u015fimde eksik noktan\u0131n insanlar\u0131 dinlemeden ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimlere g\u00f6re ak\u0131l vermek oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. Salar, &#8220;Daha c\u00fcmle bitmeden ne diyece\u011fini tahmin edip bir de ona g\u00f6re ak\u0131l veriyoruz. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 en fazla terapiye iten \u015fey dinlenme arzusu bence.&#8221; dedi. Daha sonra Do\u00e7. Dr. Z\u00fcbeyde S\u00fcll\u00fc, etkin dinleme becerisi hakk\u0131nda kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131 bilgilendirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> &#8220;Kendinimizi iyile\u015ftirmeye bakal\u0131m biraz da. Nas\u0131l her g\u00fcn \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fe su vererek ilgilenmemiz gerekiyorsa kendimizle de \u00f6yle ilgilenmemiz gerekiyor. \u0130\u00e7imize d\u00f6nmemiz gerekiyor.&#8221;&nbsp;&nbsp;ifadelerini kullanan Do\u00e7. Dr. S\u00fcll\u00fc, insanlar\u0131n bu noktay\u0131 \u00f6nemsemediklerini ama di\u011ferleriyle kaliteli ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131n yolunun insan\u0131n kendiyle kurdu\u011fu ileti\u015fimden ge\u00e7ti\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"678\" src=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0193-1024x678.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9411\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0193-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0193-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0193-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0193-1536x1017.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/DSC_0193-2048x1356.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u00e7. Dr. S\u00fcll\u00fc, Atomik Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar-James Clear, Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n G\u00fcc\u00fc-Charles Duhigg, \u00c7at\u0131\u015fma Ortam\u0131nda Bar\u0131\u015f Dili-Marshall B. Rosenberg, yine Marshall B. Rosenberg\u2019e ait \u015eiddetsiz \u0130leti\u015fim kitaplar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7eri\u011fini aktararak \u00f6\u011frencilere bu kitaplar\u0131 okumalar\u0131n\u0131 tavsiye etti.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Etkinlik foto\u011fraf \u00e7ekimi ile sona erdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"772\" src=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3527-1-1024x772.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9415\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3527-1-1024x772.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3527-1-300x226.jpg 300w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3527-1-768x579.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3527-1-1536x1157.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/IMG_3527-1-2048x1543.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"> <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Haber-Foto\u011fraf: Deniz Aydemir- \u015euheda Ayd\u0131n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> Kastamonu \u00dcniversitesi Psikoloji Toplulu\u011fu taraf\u0131ndan &#8220;Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim ve \u0130leti\u015fim&#8221; ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir konferans d\u00fczenlendi. Konferansa konu\u015fmac\u0131 olarak \u0130leti\u015fim Fak\u00fcltesi \u00d6\u011fretim \u00dcyesi Do\u00e7. Dr. Z\u00fcbeyde S\u00fcll\u00fc kat\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9404,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[304],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9399"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9399"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9399\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9428,"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9399\/revisions\/9428"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9404"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gazete.kastamonu.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}